Saturday, 12 September 2015

Radio Interview

Masocast

Masocast are based in New York USA and this interview was recorded over the Christmas period 2014. I talk about my life and London's fetish party scene on Masocast.
Miss KIM x
"An English woman in New York"


Friday, 11 September 2015

CLUB RUB SWITCH/Gender Benders

June 2015 Review by Rufai

I love anything that crosses the gender-bending, role-reversing and 'skinny indie boys' dressed as bimbo girls are YUM - my favourite! Or lavish plus-sized girls suited and booted, looking like tomboy/hard butch dykes with a 9 o’clock shadow, I tremble and go weak at the knees. I love the queer, the strange and the convoluted. That is what I expected to find at Club RUB’s Gender-Bendering SWITCH night.

If there was a specifically themed gender bender night each month, I would be there every time. I love the concept of letting your hair down, or in my case putting my hair up or a wig on, and meeting other folks who love to do the same!


attended with a good friend, who I had played with a few times. She was ready to test out her newly acquired canes. Once restrained in the dungeon, I relaxed and started to  listen to the classic dance and disco tunes playing on the dance floor, just a few feet away. The play area is on a stage platform, so you are definitely a star attraction and all eyes on you. Great if your they exhibitionist type.’




There was something exhilarating about swaying my butt in time to the music and also being caned and flogged to the rhythm and beat of the dance tracks. As I came off the stage, after enjoying a two hour session on the flogging bench, (good job folks were generally warming up first few hours), I witnessed this other gentleman dressed in pink frilly knickers and a tight white nightgown, getting his balls flogged by a lady who just a few minutes ago had been winking at me! As my Domme friend gave me a good walloping  in time with the music we exchanged admiring glances.

I later met her and and another playful lady on the dance floor, I was wearing a bikini...but that wasn't going to slow my dance moves down! Feeling all GLAM #bitchez in my HOT pink bikini and gold chains. I thought I would class it up a bit with makeup, big gold rings, like I was a ghetto bikini clad LA, Long Beach girl. To my surprise, my outfit worked well and I was on the receiving end of lots of compliments that night - it was hit with the ladies. It definitely gave me a lot more confidence to attend another gender bender night. CLUB RUB was my first one!
 



From stepping in through the front door of the The Garage in Highbury & Islington,
and seeing Miss Kim in her pink fluffy outfit, as a ‘glammed up’ drag queen, and admiring every other gender bending outfit that night, I was in blissful heaven.

I immediately felt at ease with everyone who made an effort, which was pretty much everyone in the room and on the dance floor. Men would compliment each other on their outfits as they grabbed a drink from the bar, waddling back to the dance floor in their heels.


Just before leaving, in the changing rooms, a man was saying how astonished he was that he had managed to gracefully remain in his “stripper heels” for so long, the whole night in fact! He wondered whether maybe it was the alcohol that had helped him out, by not noticing the pain and awkwardness of the heels, or just maybe, he felt at ease at Club RUB’s Gender Bender night and it’s chilled atmosphere, that he could walk around unheeded and without inhibitions.
 He did have stunning legs I must point out as I admired him from a far.







Club RUB’s Gender Bender, SWTICH night was a right laugh, something you don't get to do often, and I am glad I made it down. Thank you Miss KIM for the invite and putting on such a glamorous and spectacular event!


I can't wait for the next themed night, it's so much fun to dress up!


Fetish gender benders, transvestities and drag queens are welcome any month.

Location: The Garage, 20-22 Highbury Corner, London N5 1RD. 


Club RUB “Putting the Fun Back Into Fetish Since 1996” http://www.club-rub.com/



Dates for 2016:
Jan 23 Twins
Feb 20 Tartan and Kilts
Mar 19 Uniforms
Apr 23 19th Birthday - Animals
May 21 Dolls & Cuties
Jun 18 Red Hot Summer
July 16 TBA
Aug 13 Medical theme
Sep 10 TBA
Oct 15 Gothic Victorianna
Nov 12 Annual Rubber Awards
Dec 10 Christmas


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Thursday, 10 September 2015

Mistress Workshop Testimonials

Club-rub.com/Mistress Workshop testimonials: 


Review on the Love, Lust and Latex website by SpikeyO of Miss Kim's (below) Mistress Workshop.

Review by Louise Knight.





Absolutely loved Miss Kim's workshop! I've been in and out of the scene for a few years but I learnt so much. I can't imagine a better guide into the world of Femdom than Miss Kim, I'd definitely recommend the workshop to anyone even mildly curious. Wish I'd come 5 years ago! Emily x

* Wow Miss Kim, goes without saying but she is absolutely gorgeous. I felt very special in Miss Kim's company and treated wonderfully with bubbles, tea and biscuits. Her workshop was fascinating I was mesmerised by everything she did and said, determined not to miss a thing. The knowledge she has is vast I wanted to stay for days to learn it all. Absolutely wonderful afternoon and I can’t wait to see her again at future mistress events. Biddy

* Miss Kim's enthusiasm and inventiveness are infectious. She's welcoming, down to earth and a fount of knowledge. I really value the afternoon I spent in a 1-1 workshop and look forward to seeing her again soon!

*A fun, educational introduction to taking power in relationships for women. Kim's experience is obvious as she shares her tips and tricks with great generosity and openness of heart. A great day out to find your mistress persona and be supported in confidently taking your first (or next) steps towards becoming the Domme you want to be. Cassandra

*Wow, what an amazing workshop, I didn't go in with many expectations but have come out beaming from this workshop! On arrival we were given a glass of Cava and did some introductions, I felt relaxed from the start and it made you feel like you were meeting with old friends to discuss the ins and outs of the Mistress Lifestyle. The group was made up of Lifestyle Mistresses and those wanting to progress to Pro Domme. Miss Kim was wonderful and showed her very witty side which had us in fits of giggles many times, a beautiful person inside and out and very knowledgable in the subject area. We were shown erotic spanking, by Miss Kim, and rope demos by the lovely Bella. Many useful tips were discussed throughout the workshop and I'm glad that Miss Kim summed these up in a 'takeaway' email as there were so many to remember, I'll never have quite the same visit to a B&Q store after those!!! It made me come away feeling very excited for the future and I feel like I've made some great new friends too! Thank you Miss Kim x

*Thanks so much Kim for a wonderful one-to-one Mistress workshop! You manage to be the perfect blend of welcoming, informative, light-hearted and inspirational, with so many great tips which I look forward to putting into practice. Your advice on planning a scene particularly stands out for me, and I think will make a big difference to my play in future! Lexi
*Dear Kim. Thank you for the inspiring, efficient and funny afternoon. I already started to write rules. I feel confident and strong. Like a mistress should. Hope to see you again. Bettina

*"Super lovely workshop with Miss Kim. Comfortable atmosphere, a bit of bubbles, great demonstrations and great chats about everything Mistress-related. All questions were welcome. And there was cake! Unbeatable. Thanks lovely Miss Kim!"

*Hello Kim! It was great to participate in another course run by you. Mistress workshop was something I wanted to do for a long time. Exploring the subject, exchanging ideas and sharing experiences with other ladies helps to build confidence. Your class was extremely informative, inspiring and funny. I believe everyone felt comfortable and welcome during the workshop. Thank you for all the "insides", instructions, warnings, recommendations and Champagne! You should definitely consider writing a book.xx, Sara

*The Mistress Workshop was firstly a lot of fun and secondly provided me with a plethora of information and knowledge from Miss Kim. I now have lots more in my tool kit and I'm even more prepared now when I am Mistress. Gemma.

*I saw my first client as a pro Domme yesterday and had a great session! I was quite nervous at the beginning, but settled in quickly and really enjoyed it. Your workshop played a big part in giving me the confidence to do this kind of work and not feel like I have to spend a fortune on fetish gear. I used my tights to tie the wrists, as a blindfold and to tie the ankles...my slave loved it! He even managed to make a cup of tea with wrists and feet tied :) Your advice on poppers was particularly precious as my slave wanted to use one, I kept it under my control as it really does stink! Anyway, it went a lot better than I expected and my client asked to see me again, so a heartfelt thank you! Mistress Silk. All the best, Kim x

*Tremendous fun as well as being packed with nitty-gritty, practical advice, creative tips and plenty of food for thought (cake & cava included). I came away with tons of ideas and useful reference points. Whether your a seasoned fetishist looking to go pro or simply curious, this workshop pitches well at all levels and Kim was a warm and articulate host. A very inspiring afternoon on an otherwise dreary winter's day - cheers Kim!

*A great workshop by Mistress Kim, as someone with a partner who has been on the scene for 25 plus years it has given me so much confidence in unleashing the best of my inner mistress (already!) I would recommend it to any woman who wants to enhance her own enjoyment and learn the ins and outs! The workshop is informative, insightful and so much fun!! It was so great meeting you...can't wait to learn more!

*I had a fabulous afternoon at Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop! I left with a wealth of knowledge about how to be a tantalising, creative and safe Mistress, and the confidence to go out and play. Miss Kim is not only one of the most knowledgable in the business, but has a fantastic sense of humour that will make even the most nervous newcomers feel at ease. Highly recommended!

*Thank you so much Kim for yesterday's workshop. I had lots of fun and laughs as well as learning so much! I came as a novice to BDSM etc, wanting to explore my adventurous, dominant side and hopefully make a career out of it. And I left as a girl with so much more information and guidance on how to develop my skills and learn more about the whole scene. I didn't know where to start when I first became interested in being a professional mistress because I don't know anyone in the scene/community, but when I came home I felt so much more confident about where to look and what to do to start my business as a Pro Domme. Thanks for being so lovely, friendly and funny and making us all feel so comfortable. I'm excited and looking forward to getting into action and becoming a an all powerful mistress, I can't wait! ;)

*The workshop was really fun and interesting. As someone fairly new to all this, it was great to get so much information and advice to help me decide what I might want to do next. I laughed a lot and got to meet a great bunch of women too. A great afternoon for those starting to explore with much food for thought.

*I opted for the private session and can honestly say it was the most fun, informative and relaxed experience I could have wished for. The session was conducted in an informal fashion with a mixture of PowerPoint, practical demonstrations (poor cushion) and good old fashioned conversation with questions and experience sharing. Mistress Kim is an incredibly eloquent, experienced and humorous woman who encouraged me to ask questions (and I did ask some very stupid ones!) and answered them with practical insight and intelligence. Go, enjoy, relax, and she also provides cake! Nik x

*Hi Kim,
Thanks for the tips and all the links. I really enjoyed the workshop. It was not only good fun but it was very informative too. It definitely got me wanting to explore this area further. Best wishes, Kinga

*Hi Kim
Thank you for a very informative, thought-provoking and downright utterly hilarious workshop on Saturday. I thoroughly enjoyed myself and meeting all the other ladies. Thanks again. Kind regards, Fi aka Transvision_Vamp

*KIM
Apologies for taking over a week to get back to you to say a big "Thank You" for the lovely fun . . . and informative . . . Mistress Workshop. I've already been putting some of your excellent pointers to good use . . . hence my delay in emailing!!! I really enjoyed the relaxed and friendly atmosphere and would certainly recommend the workshop to any other ladies looking for advice and helpful hints. And your follow-up list is a wonderful reference point to keep going back to for reminders . . . and fun giggles!!!
Thank you so much again . . . and I'm looking forward to the 18th Birthday Club Rub. See you there! Xxx - K (Mistress Modesty Ablaze)

*Miss KimThank you ever so much for a wonderful enlightening afternoon. I was quite nervous and unsure when I arrived but you soon settled my nerves. You were friendly, welcoming and put me at my ease very quickly. I felt like I had known you for years as you are so easy to talk to. The session was informative and covered all the areas I expected plus more tips and practical advise. I hope that I can put all your ideas and suggestions into practice and make a wonderful Mistress. Thanks again.

* The workshop was incredibly friendly and delivered in a fun and approachable manner. Kim was very supportive and provided the confidence necessary to begin a journey into female dominance - thank you! Regards K x
*Dear Miss Kim,Thank you so much! I'm so impressed and touched that you're so generous with your time, sharing experiences and learnings with us less travelled. It makes me regret slightly that I have over the last 7 years or so not really interacted with the wider BDSM community in London. So much to learn. Thank you. I thought your workshop was excellent, very suitable both for those who already have a few slaves on tap, and those who have more limited experience. Exchanging ideas and tips in a group of open-minded women was fantastic, and you used your own personal experience to frame our questions and comments. Invaluable. I’m very grateful. The afternoon really was an inspiration, I recently left my office job and seriously think about part-time pro-Domme work. I knew there was a lot to learn, and I’m very excited about starting the journey. Thanks ever so much, see you soon! xxx
*Hi Kim, Thank you for the follow up email - you have possibly the world's greatest imagination! My feedback on the workshop would be that I simply had the most fabulous afternoon, and I feel you've unleashed the kinky beast within! And for the first time in my adult life, I'll be embracing shopping trips to Ikea and B&Q with a different perspective ;-). Lou x

*Amazing day, certainly gave me lots to think about! Kim kept it light and real and that’s what I’ll remember the most! Emily

*Good afternoon Miss Kim,Just got back to Lincolnshire, and my head has been full of thoughts. I wanted to thank you for truly amazing day, it was really lovely to meet you (and your assistant - who had an awesome bottom btw) I came away excited and inspired and my love of BDSM has grown stronger. Kind regards, Lady T

*Dear Miss Kim,Thank you so much for yesterday! What a wonderful delightful afternoon! I will respond more properly including a quote you can use later, but I wanted to maximise my chances of coming to Mistress Vanessa's party by replying early...:-) pretty please, Mistress? Have a lovely rest if the day, I will respond more properly later. Xxx Mistress Willow

*Dear Kim, an enlightening and light hearted afternoon, thank you. Great fun and a nice bottom being correctly spanked. I think you gave wonderful opportunity for discussion and experience sharing. The overall impression was of humour in a taboo subject. The inexperienced went away with new confidence and ideas to build upon. The experienced had blown away cobwebs with sisterhood. and a few ideas, uses for tights and household objects spring to mind. All those years of your experiences in the scene were obvious and very interestingly shared with the class. Regards KQ

*Dear Miss Kim, Thanks so much for your time, imagination and attention at the Mistress Workshop! It really helped both with practical skills and with thinking creatively and in a fun way about everyday life and the lifestyle. A safe, warm and humorous environment for a newcomer, and with lots of links and info to follow up. I've signed up for more training and invested in some stuff. Hoping to see you this Saturday or at a later event, Sue

*Thanks so much! The workshop helped me a lot with the concept of structuring a session. I am feeling utterly inspired now and am eager to put all I learned into practice. (Marzanna)

*As a married 'previously vanilla' career woman, you can imagine my intrepidation at attending a mistress workshop. Kim made the experience very easy, lighthearted and information. She explained all the basics but also provided significant depth and insight on specific questions the group had. I would highly recommend to anyone who wants to get a deeper insight into the ‘tricks of the trade' within the art that is Domination. Best wishes! Bee x

*To anyone who is slightly curious, intrigued or even full on fetish mad- you will learn something new and hoot with laughter while doing so with the outrageously practical Miss Kim Rub. Handy tips on alternative uses for kitchen implements, suggestions for erotic applications of a birthday candle- Miss Kim kept me enthralled for the afternoon, as I explored taboos by the dozen. I winced, I gasped but mostly I roared laughing! By the end of the session I defy you not to have discovered your Mistress alter ego and at least one or two items to extend your bedroom repertoire. Miss Kim lives life to the full, and revels in danger and daring combined with drama, creativity and an unashamed sense of the ridiculous. So go for it - you know you want to….DarkStar

*Dear Mistress Kim, I would really like to thank you so much for your Mistress Workshop. Not only was it an enjoyable afternoon but I found it most motivating and feel like it's boosted my confidence so much. It was so motivating that I've ordered a few of the books from amazon that you had on display and I can't wait to read them. Thank you so much for everything. Kind regards, Tracey

Review on the Love, Lust and Latex website by the lovely @SpikeyO. http://www.lustlovelatex.com/26/yes-miss-kim/
Hi Kim, I immensely enjoyed last Saturday Mistress workshop. It was very well structured and filled with creative and useful tools on how to become a Pro-Dom. Since I've attended your informative workshop I have become more aware of the different types of Mistresses, Slaves, Sub type, and within these categories the diversity of personalities. It had not occurred to me that when a man enjoys receiving pain (Masochist) doesn't mean that he likes to be told what to do or being humiliated. Another area I like to highlight of the session was the two demonstrations. I found The rope Bondage demo very skilful and the spanking quite Exotic…I highly recommend this beginner Mistress Workshop to any lady out there initiating in this wonderful journey of becoming a Pro-Dom or who wishes to pleasure her partner with endless role plays. Whichever the reason for attending the workshop it will be beneficial for all the parties involve… Josephine.

Huge thanks for the workshop last Saturday. Thoroughly enjoyed learning and sharing, and loved being amongst women with such different approaches to dominance. The ideas and tips you shared with us were great, the rope was blissful and I came away feeling much more aware of what I want and how to get it. Definitely worth the journey, and I'd recommend it to any woman exploring BDSM - whatever stage she's at. Miss Caroline

Hello Kim, I would recommend the Mistress Workshop to anybody. I had a wonderful afternoon, full of useful information, knowledge that I can use with partner or on professional level. Love the demonstrations! Erika xx

I thoroughly enjoyed the Mistress workshop on Saturday. I learned a lot and there were loads of great tips and tricks to help if you are new to Female Domination. I especially loved Santiago's Shibari workshop, it was beautiful and he really explained it well, and it was great that we all got to have a go at tying, and also at being tied. Kim infused the workshop with her sparkly personality and great sense of humour, and I was made to feel very welcome and at ease from the start. I would definitely recommend this experience to any woman wishing to dip her toes into the wonderfully intoxicating world of Femdom. Fun, relaxed, informative and I made some new friends too! Thank you so much. xx

Couldn't make a group Mistress Workshop with Kim but she very kindly arranged a 1-2-1 one afternoon. Kim is fabulous to meet and is extremely generous sharing her time and expertise with you. She is very welcoming, full of inspiring, deliciously devilish ideas and sage practical advice which made for a hugely worthwhile experience. I had a fair amount of play-time behind me and wanted to find out more about the professional side of Mistress-ing but I'd highly recommend joining one of Kim's Workshops, whatever your motivation may be for learning/trying more or your previous involvement. J x
I won't deny that I was slightly nervous as well as excited about attending Miss Kim's Mistress workshop. I needn't have worried at all! Miss Kim very quickly put us at ease, she is full of fun, inspiration and ideas. It was a brilliant afternoon and gave me the confidence I was lacking in firstly being able to openly talk about the kinds of things I like as well as ideas as how to put them into action. The ropejester was fantastic, again full of ideas and information. I would highly recommend this workshop to anyone interested in exploring what it is to be a Mistress. Thanks Miss Kim, Pandora's box is well and truly open!!! Lady J xxx

Dear Miss Kim,
I would just like to say a BIG Thank you for a fantastic 'mistress' workshop on Saturday!
I went along totally unaware of what the workshop would involve & a little apprehensive.. Within minutes I'd forgotten any fear & was enjoying it all so much.
Not only are you so lovely & friendly, also extremely glam, personable & fun!
(forget my previous thoughts of latex clad, heels like spikes, hair pulled taught, eyes like ice & a whip with spikes!!!) I'm laughing!!
The afternoon went in a flash! You broke things down & explained all thoroughly., no question was a stupid question at all. We had such a great time and learnt so much,
I now know I could confidently be a Mistress of many forms, again so well explained.
Thanks also to Rope Jester.. I've never witnessed a length of Rope thrown out like a sensual wave & extension of a body..
I think the entire room was secretly screaming 'tie me tie me' !!!
Again what fun & how useful!!!
I feel like my eyes are no longer only half open! I'm a fully fledged Rabbit in the headlights!
Really, I can't express how great it was & how well put across you made it all! Thank you again & I look forwards to seeing you at Rub club very soon! X

I wanted to say a big thanks for the workshop last Saturday! It exceeded my expectations!! I came along to learn how to start as a Pro Domme and had been wondering if the workshop was going to be more aimed at people wanting to take ideas home to hubby. Whereas it did cover that…in graphic detail…it also covered the ‘how to’, ‘where to’ and ‘who to’ aspects of going pro, throughout the afternoon and with plenty of time for questions and specialist advice at the end. I was fascinated by the mix of people who came along too. I loved the fact that there were academics, retail managers, housewives, unemployed and even a couple of escorts! Some people had been in the BDSM scene for a while and some were just curious. The whole session was fun, right from the start, which put everyone at ease. I loved the rope bondage session and am now very keen to get myself some rope to use! I’m looking forward to the Doctors and Nurses Ball…can’t wait…and do please let me know when Mistress Vanessa is opening her dungeon session up to us. Thanks again! Caroline x

Just a note to again say thank you and how much I enjoyed the workshop on Saturday. It has given me a lot of food for thought on developing myself I I want to go pro. The best part that has come out if it so far is that my kinky side has really woken up. I loved learning new skills an ideas and my partner/slave has been getting the benefits of those all weekend long. It was really relaxed, informative and definitely a good giggle here and there too! Hopefully see you at club rub Saturday. Lex.

Hi Kim, I would just like to say a big thank you for Saturday. I thougughly enjoyed the afternoon and learnt a great many things. Thanks Trudie

Many thanks for the very informative and interesting workshop yesterday. I really enjoyed everything as well as both demonstrations. Hope to see you soon at club-rub. Natasha (Saracen)

I thoroughly enjoyed the Mistress Workshop Miss KIM. You were so welcoming and friendly. The information you provided was very thorough and gave me a great sense of which directions to take. Also, many myths were dispelled about the lifestyle. I left with a clear picture of what I wanted and needed to do next. I'm still thinking of a name, but i think i am close! I would recommend it to anyone who is curious! I really did have the greatest time and appreciated the extra attention due to it being a one to one, thank you again for that! Madam Bountiful

I so enjoyed the Mistress Workshop. I was nervous before I got there, the thought of meeting a real life Mistress put me in a tizz as I didn't know what to expect. I really shouldn't have worried Kim is lovely and put me right at ease. It was so good to sit and chat face to face with someone who knows what they are talking about. No question was too stupid and I learned so very much. I feel a lot more confident now I have more knowledge. I'm ready to go and play. If you're thinking about it don't hesitate any longer, do it. Bo x

I attended Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop on Saturday, 27th April 2013 and it was absolutely fantastic, let me tell you. As a newbie to the BDSM scene and having read, watched and devoured everything I could about the subject beforehand, it takes a seasoned professional to lead a group of women through the various aspects of the scene allied to the wonderful world of kinky fetishes. The other Mistresses were very friendly and had a wide range of interests and backgrounds, but the one thing that I noticed was how open the atmosphere was and Miss Kim's flirtatious, yet light touch really brought the subject to life. My personal favourite aspect was the demonstration of erotic spanking and how you can use everyday household items to enhance even the most vanilla of relationships. There was also a talk from the fabulous Ropejester about the history and mechanics of rope work and the couple's deep love of the subject (and for one another!) really shone through.
In conclusion: go for it! Whether you're a home counties housewife seeking kinky thrills, a bored urbanite or simply a woman with a voracious sex life trying to channel it appropriately, it's the course for you. Yours, London Duchess
Just wanted say a huge thank you for Saturday's workshop. I'm so sorry I had to leave early but I think I got lots of great stuff from the afternoon anyway. You've cleared my mind about how I want to proceed on this journey. And you've given me the confidence to be myself and make my new powerful role work for me in my everyday life. What a great job you have to make such huge changes in people's lives. I'm now in the process of making myself 'head of the household'! We're going to out to play on Friday night and I've started preparing our evening. Really really looking forward to it already. Never been so keen before. Toying with the new names now too! The other ladies there were brilliant and I look forward to meeting them again hopefully. And the demos were great. I hadn't really thought through an erotic spanking so he's in for a treat one of these days. And as for Rope Jesters work. Well, for such an unassuming looking and quietly presented person, you'd never know there were such depths of passion and sauciness in there. I've gone from ambivalence about rope work to looking out the next Peer Rope session near me. Many many thanks and hopefully see you again in the not too distant future. Warmest regards, Sue

Hey Kim,
Wanted to thank you once again for a fabulous afternoon on Saturday. I was pretty nervous to be honest, coming into the open... but I left feeling confident and bloody liberated. Can't wait to try out a few new tricks! You are an inspiration and very creative, and I loved the humour. The ladies were lovely, and I'm excited to see everyone again at Pedestal. Looking forward to it! Layla xxx

Don't be shy about this. If you think you are a Dom or want to explore it, then as Kim says, "you have to be it". So come to the mistress workshop to confirm and realise who you are. I was apprehensive turning up at the venue, not knowing what to expect at the venue and the fellow attendees. But as soon as I walked in I met Kim and another attendee and immediately felt at ease. Everyone was so warm and friendly. The conversation was free and easy, and grown up. There's nothing to be embarassed about, it's all out there and up for discussion, sometimes at length! As for workshop, I'd also call it group therapy. The hands on demonstrations were excellent, and really provided me with some great tips to try out. Our group were all different kinds of Dom, from professionals to sometime home users to those who just simply want to know more. Kim covered all the areas. Some you may have heard of/tried before and others you didn't really knew about before. She introduced a whole new exciting world to explore. She confirmed things I had thought about before but also helped me understand things and situations that I hadn't been approaching correctly or doing right. Now with the newly gained knowledge, and a few new tools, it makes for very exciting and fun home use. Kim, not only looks the part with her immaculate appearance, she has so much knowledge, tips and tricks, and scenarios to discuss we could have been there well into the night. Brilliant, and we (my hub/sub and I) haven't stopped our secret grinning since.
Fab! Mistress R

Dear Kim
Thank you for a informative afternoon and the beginning of my new adventures, particularly your tips on spanking and demo on rope, which I look forward to trying out ;-)!!! I hope to come along to Cub Rub or another evening event. Will be in touch soon and let you know. Thanks Roshni

Hi KIM
Nikki here just to say a big thank you for the Mistress Workshop on Saturday! It was fun and very informative! Your tips are fab and the ladies that were there were lovely and I am sure we will all keep in contact! Thank you for my new name I think it is quirky and very apt! Really looking forward to meeting up at Pedestal, I think it will be a lot of fun and an eye opener! Just need to find something to wear! I could not recommend your workshop highly enough every woman in or out of the scene should go! As knowledge is power!
Thanks again Nikki Aka Mistress Lady Bird xxxxxxxxx

Dear Kim,
Thank you so much for such an interesting informative day! I really enjoyed your presentation and the company! Look forward to seeing you again at a real fetish night where you can show us around the scene!!!
Love Susie x

As stunt bum (for the erotic spanking demo) I got to sit in on Miss Kim's 'hot ticket' Mistress Workshop. There were ladies there from all walks of life, of various ages and there for all sorts of reasons. Miss Kim has a very creative mind, thinking-outside-of-the-box and a great and very important quality of hers is she knows how to have fun. The workshop was laid back, open, imaginative, informative and a giggle! Installing the power of 'The Mistress' within us, amongst the most fascinating of company! Needless to say, afterwards I was given the honour of carrying Miss Kim's props home for her. Once home I noticed my bottom was pleasantly blushing. Many thanks. Becky
I spent a wonderfully informative afternoon with the lovely Kim learning all the in's and out's of becoming a Mistress at her great Mistress Workshop. I would recommend this to anyone who would like to do become a Mistress either professional or for fun. I know also now know the art of erotic spanking :-) once again thank you. Miss Adventure.
Thanks Kim it was great to meet you.
I loved the Mistress workshop. It's an absolute must for any budding mistress. Since attending I feel like the sharpest tool in the box. There was definitely something for everyone, even if you've have experience on the scene. The things we learnt can translate into other areas of out lives and the growth was unbelievable. I'm well and truly ready!

Hi Kim,
Many thanks for a great day yesterday. You've given me ideas - along with your wonderful tips - and my latest slave has no idea what's coming his way shortly! It was also lovely for me to meet other dommes and I have arranged to keep in contact (and attend an event or two) with a couple of fab ladies. Can't wait! Helen x

Hello Kim
I really enjoyed the Mistress Workshop on Saturday. Its given me a lot of food for thought - and action! It was also great to meet so many lovely ladies. Thank you for all the information! Claire aka Lady Fenella!

Evening Miss Kim
Just wanted to drop a line to say a big thank you for today's workshop. It was fun, you were engaging, it was interesting and I think you have the lovely quality of being able to put people at ease. I also like the email you sent in advance which was very clear with travel itinerary and venue etc. The pub staff were also welcoming and friendly which was a plus. I would like to try out Club Rub sometime, so I will see you again no doubt. Enjoy the Fetish Fair tomorrow. Kind regards, Miss Scarlet (or at least that was my first thoughts for my name today).

Dear Kim,
Just a quick note to say how much I enjoyed our mistress training afternoon together. From the initial call you managed to put me totally at ease, which was precisely what I needed. You could not have pitched the session any better - informative, stimulating, surprising, saucy - very, and fun! I left feeling extremely confident and itching to use my new found skills (well, perhaps one or two) on my eagerly awaiting slave of a husband. He's been rather well behaved since. Amazing! If you ever run an intermediate, or dare I say, advanced session please do let me know. I feel my journey has properly begun - I owe you one. Sue x

"I had a fab time at Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop, which was full of top tips and great advice. Kim was friendly and down to earth, and I was able to ask her anything. As a newcomer to the scene, I found the workshop to be a really useful introduction and it has given me the confidence to explore further. Highly recommended!" Lucy (aka Mistress Camille) x

Hello Kim,
I would like to say, meeting you was a great pleasure. I always enjoy meeting people who I can admire or feel connected with. I wrote a new post on my blog tonight and it was inspired by you. It is not a blog talking about Mistresses but it is a creative story. Your reading at the workshop was inspiring. It is a bit long so if you feel like reading it, please do so when you have time to enjoy it. http://dominaimperium.com/ ( BTW the blog is not .com) thank you for the advice! Here is a Testimonial: There is a moment in ones journey when you find a path to the perfect situation or experience for your world to move forward. Miss Kim has elevated my expectations as to what it means to be a dominate woman, and above that she has created a personalised connection between the attendees and herself. There isn't a better way to learn and improve yourself than when having someone show dedications to teaching the art of domination in a positive and powerful way. I recommend the workshop to anyone wanting to explore for the first time their inner Mistress side or even better yet a refresher course for you to understand what you are really about. It is exciting, fun, interactive and above all sexy. Thank you for a wonderful class Miss Kim. Domina Orchid xxx

Hi Miss Kim!
Just wanted to say a big Thank You for your help last Saturday. I definitely learnt loads about not just being a Mistress and being a Domme, but a lot more about BDSM too. I am a total newbie, so was trying to soak in as much information as I could that day. As I mentioned in the other email, it was like a curtain has lifted, or like, my thirst for more has not yet been quenched, hehe. I got a copy of SM101 like you recommended, and wow, it is so so informative. I am nearly a third of the way in, and already I am learning so much about things. Questions I had previously, like, "Is that acceptable? Is that right? Is it just me? Am I wrong to think that?"... The book is such a great resource for answering some of such questions, and making you think about other questions/issues as well. Miss Kim, this weekend has been so enlightening for me. Thank you so much!!! Cheers JJ

The workshop was fantastic. It was great being with a small group of very different women - all wanting to know more about being a mistress. I had a great time - Kim clearly knows her stuff, and was very informative and down to earth. I learned a lot, and the workshop really got me thinking about what sort of mistress i would like to be in my personal relationships. We were given lots of practical tips about things to try out, as well as more emotional issues related to being a mistress - whether personally or professionally. I look forward to attending other workshops. Thanks Kim! Anon x.
Attending the Mistress Workshop in February has unleashed a side to me that i've never felt very confident exposing, however, since then i have been happily exploring my inner Dom. Being my first time at such a workshop, i really didn't know too much about what to expect and so felt a little nervous before arriving at the venue. I really didn't need to worry though, as I entered a room full of women that were there for the same reason as myself. Everyone was friendly, relaxed and open about their experiences and it instantly put my nerves to rest. x

The class itself was hosted by Miss Kim and her passion and energy, not to mention sense of fun created an electric atmosphere and i found myself absorbed by it all. My mind was exposed to sceneario's that I previously hadn't thought of, this of course, is dependent on how into the scene you are. Discovering so much new information for me was quite a learning curve and the demonstration of shibari was excellently portrayed by Bruce of Esinem. My favorite activity, which to my suprise, was spanking; it has given me a whole new angle to look at. By the end of the end of the day, i was feeling inspired and very creative and delighted to have met so many wonderful like-minded ladies and new techniques to take home and test on my slave. Thanks again Miss Kim!

Mistress Caroline
It was Spanktastic!Thank you so much, met some Amazing women, made some great contacts learnt lot's and had a good laugh too, thanks again Kim. Miss Midian x

Hi Kim,
I have thoroughly enjoyed your Mistress workshop on Saturday. I wasn't sure what to expect really but I have left with a fascinating insight of exciting world of domination and have met some great people. It was a very fun Saturday afternoon, so thank you Kim! I hope to see you soon in Club Rub. Ms Andy Millington

Hi Miss Kim,
Your workshop was OMG so freaking wicked! I never sit still and listen for that many hours. I walked in all shy and walked out fierce, whip in hand! Those slaves don't know what's coming. My vanilla friends are 'jel' now. You might be meeting them soon. Much love Miss Barbie xxxx

Had a great time at the workshop. Met some really fun ladies, learned some interesting tricks. It was a very exciting afternoon. Can't wait for the next one. Mizz V and puppy.

Dear Kim,
Thanks so very much for the workshop. I saw your email but have been so busy since I have been here that I never found the time to reply. The workshop was great. I think that especially for an absolute beginner it would have been a wonderful introduction that really got them thinking about the lifestyle more. In all honesty for me the most fun part was seeing your toy collection and thinking about what I can add to mine. Warm regards, Ria

Hiya,
Just wanted to say a big thank you for the workshop. The amount I learnt was overwhelming but very much what I was hoping for! I believe I have the creativity to take on a more authoritative role - just need to push myself a bit with the confidence. If you see us on Saturday come and say hi. I'd love to buy you a drink to say thanks! Take care, J x
* I had a fantastic time at Kim's Mistress Workshop. Kim is warm and welcoming and immensely knowledgeable. I came away with some great tips, more confidence and creativity to help fulfil my potential as a Domme. It was also great to meet the other ladies at the workshop, to share ideas and laughs. I would recommend the workshop to any aspiring Domme or those interested in trying it out. Thank you Kim!

* Hi Kim, I immensely enjoyed last Saturday Mistress workshop. It was very well structured and filled with creative and useful tools on how to become a Pro-Dom. Since I've attended your informative workshop I have become more aware of the different types of Mistresses, Slaves, Sub type, and within these categories the diversity of personalities. It had not occurred to me that when a man enjoys receiving pain (Masochist) doesn't mean that he likes to be told what to do or being humiliated. Another area I like to highlight of the session was the two demonstrations. I found The rope Bondage demo very skilful and the spanking quite Exotic…I highly recommend this beginner Mistress Workshop to any lady out there initiating in this wonderful journey of becoming a Pro-Dom or who wishes to pleasure her partner with endless role plays. Whichever the reason for attending the workshop it will be beneficial for all the parties involve… Josephine.

*Dear Miss KimThank you for a fantastic afternoon of kinky education under your fantastic tutelage. I really enjoyed the relaxed atmosphere and broad range of material covering everything from demos of spanking and rope bondage to how to conduct a session and health and safety. You definitely gave me the inspiration to go out and discover my inner Mistress! Thank you again for sharing your knowledge and experience. I had a blast! Lady I x
*Sure it was lovely to see you again last saturday and the workshop was a blast !
It gave a good insight on the many ,different aspects of being a Mistress in a fun,but professional
manner and i enjoyed to gather so much information from your experience !It was also very interestingthesee and hear about rope bondage and be with other like-minded ladies ! Fifi

*A fascinating, educational and most of all fun morning learning from Miss Kim. As a new user to the BDSM world she made me feel at ease with my many questions :o) In the 3 days since the workshop I have acquired a sub, run a session and got myself into some gorgeous rubber. I found the day truly empowering...bringing out my feminine strength. Thank you Miss Kim! Miss Scorpion

*Hi Miss Kim,
Yesterday's workshop was great, I learnt a so much from both you and Craig. I can say for definite that planning and refining the plan to 3 fetishes works wonders. Got a chance to practise this morning when putting a newbie through his paces, I was very impressed by how much I was able to retain rather than going blank. Thank you so much for having me. Asabi

*Dear Miss Kim,
I cannot thank you enough for the workshop. I was a great introduction to all things Mistress, from the basic principles behind domination and submission to tons of practical. advice. The workshop was a lot of fun, and also very instructional and useful. For instance, I went to my first party a few weeks later, and when a cross-dresser tied on the floor asked me to spank their feet to the sound of Christmas songs, I knew how to proceed! In fact I must have done something right: when I had finished with the cross-dresser, someone else asked me to spank his schoolgirl Bottom. I told him that it would be my first time, and he guided me through it for two hours. A Mistress was born! Now I'll start buying toys, experimenting and researching. It's a whole new world, and I wouldn't have known I had it in me if not for you and your workshop. So thank you! If you ever need anything, give me a ring. As I'm based in Bristol I cannot make it to most of the parties in London, but I will try to fit one in my schedule. I'd love to go to Club RUB, maybe towards the end of January. In the meantime, I'll add you on FetLife. My name is incompletude.

*I attended Kim's mistress workshop on the 26th July 2014 which was truly a great afternoon and experience. I was mostly impressed by Kim's vast knowledge on the subject and her willingness to share it with us. The presentation was excellent, full of useful information and insights of the industry as well as some exciting sections of a spanking demonstration and a rope bondage demonstration. I have had the best time, met some lovely ladies and learned so much from Kim, I even left with my own Mistress name which Kim carefully helped me decide on. I highly recommend this workshop to anyone who might be thinking of trying it.

*Hi Mistress Kim, I really enjoyed your workshop yesterday, and I have come away with so many ideas of how to have my 24/7 dom lifestyle. You truely are a magnificent persion for sharing your knowledge. You are so right it is all about motivation and you truly have given me that. All I need now ts to ensure I stay motivated. lol There are so many benefits to this lifestyle so as long as I keep reminding myself of this I am sure I can keep my motivation going. I hope to see you around, as you have given me more confidence to meet other doms and gain more knowledge. I have every intention of attending club pedestal, I just have to plan it when my daughter is away for the night. I hope to see you there.

*I went a long to a one to one mistress workshop with Kim. I found it very interesting & helpful, Kim was very friendly & welcoming which made me feel comfortable throughout. I would definitely recommend & will be visiting Kim again as she's knows what's she's taking about & what she's doing. Thankyou, Emma x

*Miss Kim really pays attention to detail and tailored our one to one session to my needs, overall a very informative session, I have learnt many technics which I can't wait to put into practice-I would highly recommend attending Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop to anyone female looking to explore that side of things with their partner. Thank you for great session worth every penny xxxx

* Dear Kim, Thanks very much for he wonderful workshop.I had a great time and a little more insight in the world of a Dominatrix. Thank again and hope to see you soon. Madame VOLCANO.

* Hey, Thank you so much for a wonderful workshop. You were brill and I left with some great info and tricks! I would very much like to accept your offer to come to Mistress Vanessa's party. I also hope to attend the next Club Rub. Your list of SM tips is fantastic!! You are like a dirty Bear Grylls!! (I do believe he gave himself a sea water enema out of objects he found on the beach). As soon as I have my day off I am going to earn my Blue Peter badge making some filthy tools. Looking forward to seeing you again soon, Jo.x

*Mistress Kim, I kneel in awe of your skills! Loved, loved, loved your workshop, came away armed with loads of information, delivered in a fun, informative and skilled method, very accessible to all new and not so new Dommes. The added eye candy and instructive lesson given by Captain Crop, was a particular highlight I have to say, almost made me wish to be a more submissive switch! sigh! Thank you so much Mistress! I wish I could join you when you visit Mistress Vanessa, but I look forward to hearing all the highlights! Lots of love and latex, Evelyn, x …now where did I put that brillo pad?

* Huge thanks for the workshop last Saturday. Thoroughly enjoyed learning and sharing, and loved being amongst women with such different approaches to dominance. The ideas and tips you shared with us were great, the rope was blissful and I came away feeling much more aware of what I want and how to get it. Definitely worth the journey, and I'd recommend it to any woman exploring BDSM - whatever stage she's at. Miss Caroline

* Hello Kim, I would recommend the Mistress Workshop to anybody. I had a wonderful afternoon, full of useful information, knowledge that I can use with partner or on professional level. Love the demonstrations! Erika xx

* I thoroughly enjoyed the Mistress workshop on Saturday. I learned a lot and there were loads of great tips and tricks to help if you are new to Female Domination. I especially loved Santiago's Shibari workshop, it was beautiful and he really explained it well, and it was great that we all got to have a go at tying, and also at being tied. Kim infused the workshop with her sparkly personality and great sense of humour, and I was made to feel very welcome and at ease from the start. I would definitely recommend this experience to any woman wishing to dip her toes into the wonderfully intoxicating world of Femdom. Fun, relaxed, informative and I made some new friends too! Thank you so much. Xx

* Couldn't make a group Mistress Workshop with Kim but she very kindly arranged a 1-2-1 one afternoon. Kim is fabulous to meet and is extremely generous sharing her time and expertise with you. She is very welcoming, full of inspiring, deliciously devilish ideas and sage practical advice which made for a hugely worthwhile experience. I had a fair amount of play-time behind me and wanted to find out more about the professional side of Mistress-ing but I'd highly recommend joining one of Kim's Workshops, whatever your motivation may be for learning/trying more or your previous involvement. J x

* I won't deny that I was slightly nervous as well as excited about attending Miss Kim's Mistress workshop. I needn't have worried at all! Miss Kim very quickly put us at ease, she is full of fun, inspiration and ideas. It was a brilliant afternoon and gave me the confidence I was lacking in firstly being able to openly talk about the kinds of things I like as well as ideas as how to put them into action. The ropejester was fantastic, again full of ideas and information. I would highly recommend this workshop to anyone interested in exploring what it is to be a Mistress. Thanks Miss Kim, Pandora's box is well and truly open!!! Lady J xxx

* Dear Miss Kim,
I would just like to say a BIG Thank you for a fantastic 'mistress' workshop on Saturday!
I went along totally unaware of what the workshop would involve & a little apprehensive.. Within minutes I'd forgotten any fear & was enjoying it all so much.
Not only are you so lovely & friendly, also extremely glam, personable & fun!
(forget my previous thoughts of latex clad, heels like spikes, hair pulled taught, eyes like ice & a whip with spikes!!!) I'm laughing!!
The afternoon went in a flash! You broke things down & explained all thoroughly., no question was a stupid question at all. We had such a great time and learnt so much,
I now know I could confidently be a Mistress of many forms, again so well explained.
Thanks also to Rope Jester.. I've never witnessed a length of Rope thrown out like a sensual wave & extension of a body..
I think the entire room was secretly screaming 'tie me tie me' !!!
Again what fun & how useful!!!
I feel like my eyes are no longer only half open! I'm a fully fledged Rabbit in the headlights!
Really, I can't express how great it was & how well put across you made it all! Thank you again & I look forwards to seeing you at Rub club very soon! X

* I wanted to say a big thanks for the workshop last Saturday! It exceeded my expectations!! I came along to learn how to start as a Pro Domme and had been wondering if the workshop was going to be more aimed at people wanting to take ideas home to hubby. Whereas it did cover that…in graphic detail…it also covered the ‘how to’, ‘where to’ and ‘who to’ aspects of going pro, throughout the afternoon and with plenty of time for questions and specialist advice at the end. I was fascinated by the mix of people who came along too. I loved the fact that there were academics, retail managers, housewives, unemployed and even a couple of escorts! Some people had been in the BDSM scene for a while and some were just curious. The whole session was fun, right from the start, which put everyone at ease. I loved the rope bondage session and am now very keen to get myself some rope to use! I’m looking forward to the Doctors and Nurses Ball…can’t wait…and do please let me know when Mistress Vanessa is opening her dungeon session up to us. Thanks again! Caroline x
* Just a note to again say thank you and how much I enjoyed the workshop on Saturday. It has given me a lot of food for thought on developing myself I I want to go pro. The best part that has come out if it so far is that my kinky side has really woken up. I loved learning new skills an ideas and my partner/slave has been getting the benefits of those all weekend long. It was really relaxed, informative and definitely a good giggle here and there too! Hopefully see you at club rub Saturday. Lex.

* Hi Kim, I would just like to say a big thank you for Saturday. I thougughly enjoyed the afternoon and learnt a great many things. Thanks Trudie

* Many thanks for the very informative and interesting workshop yesterday. I really enjoyed everything as well as both demonstrations. Hope to see you soon at club-rub. Natasha (Saracen)

* I thoroughly enjoyed the Mistress Workshop Miss KIM. You were so welcoming and friendly. The information you provided was very thorough and gave me a great sense of which directions to take. Also, many myths were dispelled about the lifestyle. I left with a clear picture of what I wanted and needed to do next. I'm still thinking of a name, but i think i am close! I would recommend it to anyone who is curious! I really did have the greatest time and appreciated the extra attention due to it being a one to one, thank you again for that! Madam Bountiful

* I so enjoyed the Mistress Workshop. I was nervous before I got there, the thought of meeting a real life Mistress put me in a tizz as I didn't know what to expect. I really shouldn't have worried Kim is lovely and put me right at ease. It was so good to sit and chat face to face with someone who knows what they are talking about. No question was too stupid and I learned so very much. I feel a lot more confident now I have more knowledge. I'm ready to go and play. If you're thinking about it don't hesitate any longer, do it. Bo x

*I attended Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop on Saturday, 27th April 2013 and it was absolutely fantastic, let me tell you. As a newbie to the BDSM scene and having read, watched and devoured everything I could about the subject beforehand, it takes a seasoned professional to lead a group of women through the various aspects of the scene allied to the wonderful world of kinky fetishes. The other Mistresses were very friendly and had a wide range of interests and backgrounds, but the one thing that I noticed was how open the atmosphere was and Miss Kim's flirtatious, yet light touch really brought the subject to life. My personal favourite aspect was the demonstration of erotic spanking and how you can use everyday household items to enhance even the most vanilla of relationships. There was also a talk from the fabulous Ropejester about the history and mechanics of rope work and the couple's deep love of the subject (and for one another!) really shone through.
In conclusion: go for it! Whether you're a home counties housewife seeking kinky thrills, a bored urbanite or simply a woman with a voracious sex life trying to channel it appropriately, it's the course for you. Yours, London Duchess

* Just wanted say a huge thank you for Saturday's workshop. I'm so sorry I had to leave early but I think I got lots of great stuff from the afternoon anyway. You've cleared my mind about how I want to proceed on this journey. And you've given me the confidence to be myself and make my new powerful role work for me in my everyday life. What a great job you have to make such huge changes in people's lives. I'm now in the process of making myself 'head of the household'! We're going to out to play on Friday night and I've started preparing our evening. Really really looking forward to it already. Never been so keen before. Toying with the new names now too! The other ladies there were brilliant and I look forward to meeting them again hopefully. And the demos were great. I hadn't really thought through an erotic spanking so he's in for a treat one of these days. And as for Rope Jesters work. Well, for such an unassuming looking and quietly presented person, you'd never know there were such depths of passion and sauciness in there. I've gone from ambivalence about rope work to looking out the next Peer Rope session near me. Many many thanks and hopefully see you again in the not too distant future. Warmest regards, Sue

* Hey Kim,
Wanted to thank you once again for a fabulous afternoon on Saturday. I was pretty nervous to be honest, coming into the open... but I left feeling confident and bloody liberated. Can't wait to try out a few new tricks! You are an inspiration and very creative, and I loved the humour. The ladies were lovely, and I'm excited to see everyone again at Pedestal. Looking forward to it! Layla xxx

* Don't be shy about this. If you think you are a Dom or want to explore it, then as Kim says, "you have to be it". So come to the mistress workshop to confirm and realise who you are. I was apprehensive turning up at the venue, not knowing what to expect at the venue and the fellow attendees. But as soon as I walked in I met Kim and another attendee and immediately felt at ease. Everyone was so warm and friendly. The conversation was free and easy, and grown up. There's nothing to be embarassed about, it's all out there and up for discussion, sometimes at length! As for workshop, I'd also call it group therapy. The hands on demonstrations were excellent, and really provided me with some great tips to try out. Our group were all different kinds of Dom, from professionals to sometime home users to those who just simply want to know more. Kim covered all the areas. Some you may have heard of/tried before and others you didn't really knew about before. She introduced a whole new exciting world to explore. She confirmed things I had thought about before but also helped me understand things and situations that I hadn't been approaching correctly or doing right. Now with the newly gained knowledge, and a few new tools, it makes for very exciting and fun home use. Kim, not only looks the part with her immaculate appearance, she has so much knowledge, tips and tricks, and scenarios to discuss we could have been there well into the night. Brilliant, and we (my hub/sub and I) haven't stopped our secret grinning since.
Fab! Mistress R

* Dear Kim Thank you for a informative afternoon and the beginning of my new adventures, particularly your tips on spanking and demo on rope, which I look forward to trying out ;-)!!! I hope to come along to Cub Rub or another evening event. Will be in touch soon and let you know. Thanks Roshni

* Hi KIM Nikki here just to say a big thank you for the Mistress Workshop on Saturday! It was fun and very informative! Your tips are fab and the ladies that were there were lovely and I am sure we will all keep in contact! Thank you for my new name I think it is quirky and very apt! Really looking forward to meeting up at Pedestal, I think it will be a lot of fun and an eye opener! Just need to find something to wear! I could not recommend your workshop highly enough every woman in or out of the scene should go! As knowledge is power!
Thanks again Nikki Aka Mistress Lady Bird xxxxxxxxx

* Dear Kim, Thank you so much for such an interesting informative day! I really enjoyed your presentation and the company! Look forward to seeing you again at a real fetish night where you can show us around the scene!!!
Love Susie x

* As stunt bum (for the erotic spanking demo) I got to sit in on Miss Kim's 'hot ticket' Mistress Workshop. There were ladies there from all walks of life, of various ages and there for all sorts of reasons. Miss Kim has a very creative mind, thinking-outside-of-the-box and a great and very important quality of hers is she knows how to have fun. The workshop was laid back, open, imaginative, informative and a giggle! Installing the power of 'The Mistress' within us, amongst the most fascinating of company! Needless to say, afterwards I was given the honour of carrying Miss Kim's props home for her. Once home I noticed my bottom was pleasantly blushing. Many thanks. Becky

* I spent a wonderfully informative afternoon with the lovely Kim learning all the in's and out's of becoming a Mistress at her great Mistress Workshop. I would recommend this to anyone who would like to do become a Mistress either professional or for fun. I know also now know the art of erotic spanking :-) once again thank you. Miss Adventure. Thanks Kim it was great to meet you.

* I loved the Mistress workshop. It's an absolute must for any budding mistress. Since attending I feel like the sharpest tool in the box. There was definitely something for everyone, even if you've have experience on the scene. The things we learnt can translate into other areas of out lives and the growth was unbelievable. I'm well and truly ready!

* Hi Kim, Many thanks for a great day yesterday. You've given me ideas - along with your wonderful tips - and my latest slave has no idea what's coming his way shortly! It was also lovely for me to meet other dommes and I have arranged to keep in contact (and attend an event or two) with a couple of fab ladies. Can't wait! Helen x

* Hello Kim
I really enjoyed the Mistress Workshop on Saturday. Its given me a lot of food for thought - and action! It was also great to meet so many lovely ladies. Thank you for all the information! Claire aka Lady Fenella!

* Evening Miss Kim Just wanted to drop a line to say a big thank you for today's workshop. It was fun, you were engaging, it was interesting and I think you have the lovely quality of being able to put people at ease. I also like the email you sent in advance which was very clear with travel itinerary and venue etc. The pub staff were also welcoming and friendly which was a plus. I would like to try out Club Rub sometime, so I will see you again no doubt. Enjoy the Fetish Fair tomorrow. Kind regards, Miss Scarlet (or at least that was my first thoughts for my name today).

* Dear Kim, Just a quick note to say how much I enjoyed our mistress training afternoon together. From the initial call you managed to put me totally at ease, which was precisely what I needed. You could not have pitched the session any better - informative, stimulating, surprising, saucy - very, and fun! I left feeling extremely confident and itching to use my new found skills (well, perhaps one or two) on my eagerly awaiting slave of a husband. He's been rather well behaved since. Amazing! If you ever run an intermediate, or dare I say, advanced session please do let me know. I feel my journey has properly begun - I owe you one. Sue x

* "I had a fab time at Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop, which was full of top tips and great advice. Kim was friendly and down to earth, and I was able to ask her anything. As a newcomer to the scene, I found the workshop to be a really useful introduction and it has given me the confidence to explore further. Highly recommended!" Lucy (aka Mistress Camille) x

* Hello Kim,
I would like to say, meeting you was a great pleasure. I always enjoy meeting people who I can admire or feel connected with. I wrote a new post on my blog tonight and it was inspired by you. It is not a blog talking about Mistresses but it is a creative story. Your reading at the workshop was inspiring. It is a bit long so if you feel like reading it, please do so when you have time to enjoy it. http://dominaimperium.com/ ( BTW the blog is not .com) thank you for the advice! Here is a Testimonial: There is a moment in ones journey when you find a path to the perfect situation or experience for your world to move forward. Miss Kim has elevated my expectations as to what it means to be a dominate woman, and above that she has created a personalised connection between the attendees and herself. There isn't a better way to learn and improve yourself than when having someone show dedications to teaching the art of domination in a positive and powerful way. I recommend the workshop to anyone wanting to explore for the first time their inner Mistress side or even better yet a refresher course for you to understand what you are really about. It is exciting, fun, interactive and above all sexy. Thank you for a wonderful class Miss Kim. Domina Orchid xxx

* Hi Miss Kim!
Just wanted to say a big Thank You for your help last Saturday. I definitely learnt loads about not just being a Mistress and being a Domme, but a lot more about BDSM too. I am a total newbie, so was trying to soak in as much information as I could that day. As I mentioned in the other email, it was like a curtain has lifted, or like, my thirst for more has not yet been quenched, hehe. I got a copy of SM101 like you recommended, and wow, it is so so informative. I am nearly a third of the way in, and already I am learning so much about things. Questions I had previously, like, "Is that acceptable? Is that right? Is it just me? Am I wrong to think that?"... The book is such a great resource for answering some of such questions, and making you think about other questions/issues as well. Miss Kim, this weekend has been so enlightening for me. Thank you so much!!! Cheers JJ

*The workshop was fantastic. It was great being with a small group of very different women - all wanting to know more about being a mistress. I had a great time - Kim clearly knows her stuff, and was very informative and down to earth. I learned a lot, and the workshop really got me thinking about what sort of mistress i would like to be in my personal relationships. We were given lots of practical tips about things to try out, as well as more emotional issues related to being a mistress - whether personally or professionally. I look forward to attending other workshops. Thanks Kim! Anon x.

* Attending the Mistress Workshop in February has unleashed a side to me that i've never felt very confident exposing, however, since then i have been happily exploring my inner Dom. Being my first time at such a workshop, i really didn't know too much about what to expect and so felt a little nervous before arriving at the venue. I really didn't need to worry though, as I entered a room full of women that were there for the same reason as myself. Everyone was friendly, relaxed and open about their experiences and it instantly put my nerves to rest. x

* The class itself was hosted by Miss Kim and her passion and energy, not to mention sense of fun created an electric atmosphere and i found myself absorbed by it all. My mind was exposed to sceneario's that I previously hadn't thought of, this of course, is dependent on how into the scene you are. Discovering so much new information for me was quite a learning curve and the demonstration of shibari was excellently portrayed by Bruce of Esinem. My favorite activity, which to my suprise, was spanking; it has given me a whole new angle to look at. By the end of the end of the day, i was feeling inspired and very creative and delighted to have met so many wonderful like-minded ladies and new techniques to take home and test on my slave. Thanks again Miss Kim! Mistress Caroline

* It was Spanktastic!Thank you so much, met some Amazing women, made some great contacts learnt lot's and had a good laugh too, thanks again Kim. Miss Midian x

* Hi Kim,
I have thoroughly enjoyed your Mistress workshop on Saturday. I wasn't sure what to expect really but I have left with a fascinating insight of exciting world of domination and have met some great people. It was a very fun Saturday afternoon, so thank you Kim! I hope to see you soon in Club Rub. Ms Andy Millington

* Hi Miss Kim,
Your workshop was OMG so freaking wicked! I never sit still and listen for that many hours. I walked in all shy and walked out fierce, whip in hand! Those slaves don't know what's coming. My vanilla friends are 'jel' now. You might be meeting them soon. Much love Miss Barbie xxxx
Had a great time at the workshop. Met some really fun ladies, learned some interesting tricks. It was a very exciting afternoon. Can't wait for the next one. Mizz V and puppy.

* Dear Kim,
Thanks so very much for the workshop. I saw your email but have been so busy since I have been here that I never found the time to reply. The workshop was great. I think that especially for an absolute beginner it would have been a wonderful introduction that really got them thinking about the lifestyle more. In all honesty for me the most fun part was seeing your toy collection and thinking about what I can add to mine. Warm regards, Ria

* Hiya,
Just wanted to say a big thank you for the workshop. The amount I learnt was overwhelming but very much what I was hoping for! I believe I have the creativity to take on a more authoritative role - just need to push myself a bit with the confidence. If you see us on Saturday come and say hi. I'd love to buy you a drink to say thanks! Take care, J x

* Hello Kim! Thanks a lot for last Saturday, it was amazing! It really is an interesting workshop. I loved the demonstrations, I learnt a lot in a very relax and fun atmosphere! Thank you again. Bye :) Elodie